Mindset Monday – Your Biggest Obstacle

• MINDSET MONDAY •

Look, I’m living freakin’ proof that your mindset is not only your BIGGEST obstacle, but it’s also the most POWERFUL puzzle piece.

I used to focus on negatives, zero in on imperfections, give way too much weight to flaws, treat everyone like my personal therapist, and just straight up did not believe in myself. So everything was mediocre.

Because I mean, of course – you CAN’T and you WON’T be able to SHINE until you get your mind right. There is no way around it; your mindset and your belief in yourself are the powerful one-two punch you NEED to be unstoppable.

So, clear the mental chatter and just believe in your abilities, right here, right now. YES, YOU CAN DO JUST THAT. It’s hard, yes (and worth it!), but impossible? NOPE.

Need help? We’re better together, dont’cha know? 😉

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Mindset Monday – Clear The Mental Chatter

Look, I’m living freakin’ proof that your mindset is not only your BIGGEST obstacle, but it’s also the most POWERFUL puzzle piece.

I used to focus on negatives, zero in on imperfections, give way too much weight to flaws, and just straight up did not believe in myself. So everything was mediocre.

Because I mean, of course – you CAN’T and you WON’T be able to SHINE until you get your mind right. There is no way around it; your mindset and your belief in yourself are the powerful one-two punch you NEED to be unstoppable.

So, clear the mental chatter and just believe in your abilities, right here, right now. YES, YOU CAN DO JUST THAT. It’s hard, yes (and worth it!), but impossible? NOPE.

Need help? We’re better together, dont’cha know?

Mindset Monday – Unleash Your Inner Badass

🌺 Mindset Monday! 🌺

THIS one is a must listen/do for anyone who has questioned themselves, anyone who has taken a compliment someone gave them and brushed it off (that’d be me, every time…), anyone who doesn’t realize how fucking badass and powerful they are.

Get your MINDSET right in BELIEVING you are a damn powerful badass, and the rest will fall into line.

And you ARE a badass. Fact.

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Having been working extensively on my negative mindset for almost a year now, it’s interesting to reflect.

On the one hand, I have come pretty far, and it has paid off greatly in so many different areas of life – I am now a firm believer that mindset really is the biggest piece of any puzzle. I see how much easier life is with a positive outlook and a firm belief in my ability to get through whatever life throws at me.

On the other hand, becoming so aware of mindset heightens my awareness of how negative other people (and this world in general) can sometimes be, and it can be quite a battle not to fall down that rabbit hole.

I am still a work in progress, which is why this is such a battle – as hard as I work, it is sometimes so easy to fall back into old habits!

It is worth the battle though, because truly, shifting my way to a more positive mindset is one of the greatest projects I have ever taken on!

Mindset Monday – Closure

Closure.

Do you need some? Is it the missing piece of the puzzle for you?

Recently, I did. I had tried everything else, except seeking closure. And I didn’t get it to the degree I would have liked it because some people just don’t have what you need, but I had to be okay with that. I had to accept what I did get, let it go, and stop punishing myself by continuing on this vicious cycle.

If you need closure, you can try to get it. It may not be to your liking, but you have to be okay with that. Know that you tried. Know you did your best. Know you made an effort. Effort matters!

Brad has a great Tapping video on Closure, so I thought I would share!

Mindset Monday – The Power of Yet

Do you know the power of YET?

There is nothing you can’t do. You just may not be able to do it YET. Hold this vision, and keep going until you can. You get better. You get stronger.

You may not be able to do it YET, but the only thing stopping you is if you DON’T continue to keep going. The power of your mind is everything.

It’s not a permanent inability to do something… you just can’t do it YET!

Mindset Monday – Failures Into Lessons

I have always struggled with perfectionism, especially in my crafting. I know, “flaws” make it evident a human, not a machine made it, but I can’t help it, especially if someone is paying money… I want it to be perfect!

This trait has spilled over into most facets of my life, though THANKFULLY, I have come a long way on it. I do strive for progress, and the best I can do, but I realize perfection isn’t usually attainable.

You aren’t perfect either. You are also going to make mistakes and experience failure in multiple contexts, at multiple jobs and with multiple people. But instead of focusing on how you failed, think about what you’re going to do next time – turn your FAILURE into a LESSON.

Life is truly a lot easier when you let go of the need/desire to be perfect, and embrace the lessons in FAILING FORWARD.perfection-crossed-out