I don’t have much else to say on this fine Monday other than this. There is being constructive, and being cruel/critical. If you aren’t gonna frame your message in a way that will encourage, empower, and lift someone up, there is no sense in the message.
We get nowhere by criticizing and cutting people down.
When you are about to speak words, think about how the same words spoken to you would make YOU feel, and then speak accordingly.
Remember, words have wings so speak good things!