I have been trying to remind myself of this daily, and be more conscious of my words and thoughts, because this is true. I am trying to keep my language positive, upbeat, and inspiring.
Of course, sometimes its frustrating and it’s easy to want to vent that out – I don’t advise against NOT venting it out, but do so in a manner that doesn’t fast track you to a place of negativity. Instead of saying “You lazy jerk, how could you not have made time to sweep the floor?” say something like “I understand you are tired, but next time please find a way to dedicate 10 minutes to sweeping the floor, and then enjoy a clean house!”
The language that you use matters immensely. Always try to see, and word things, in a positive, uplifting manner!